Not Everyone Will Like You And That’s Okay

“You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world, and there’s still going to be somebody who hates peaches.” Dita Von Teese You may be the kindest, smartest, funniest person with many admirable qualities, which are lost on some people, so that no matter what you do, they’re not a fan. Do you like …

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What Is Said In Darkness Will Come To Light

I have debated whether to say something but I have been struggling with something for a while now and I wanted to share in case it’s something you are dealing with too. ⁣⁣I am finding it hard to be accepting of women and organisations that are publicly declaring they are about supporting other women, the …

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Why Do People Assume…

I’ve often felt like the black sheep in my family, the misfit, the odd one out. For several reasons. This feeling is often heightened by the elephant in the room. I’m over 30, unmarried and no children. In many cultures including my own, that means I’m over the shelf, on the shelf, whatever. You know …

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Life List Ideas: Inspiration for Women Who Want to Embrace Life

Have you ever felt that your days are passing you by without the meaning and depth you desire? What did you accomplish in the past month? What are your goals for the next two months? Look at the things that you have been doing and the things that you’re planning to do next — do …

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40 Life List Ideas: Inspiration for Women Who Want to Embrace Life

So this year I hit 40! The “Fabulous 40s,” I’ve heard some say! And they’re right, but only if we choose for these years to be fabulous. Living life with intention requires clarity, if you don’t live your days by goals and plans, chances are that you spend most of your time sleep walking through life reacting to …

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40 Lessons In 40 years. Part 1

Well, I turn 40 this month. Not quite sure when that happened! I’m pretty sure it was just yesterday that I had my 30th, 20 weeks pregnant with my daughter Daya and heading into the 30’s with the same optimism and hope it feel now leaving this decade and heading into another! But clearly, it wasn’t yesterday. …

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40 Lessons In 40 years…

Well, I turn 40 this month. Not quite sure when that happened! I’m pretty sure it was just yesterday that I had my 30th, 20 weeks pregnant with my daughter Daya and heading into the 30’s with the same optimism and hope I feel now leaving this decade and heading into another! But clearly, it …

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Inspire Series: Breaking The Shackles Of Asian Female Conditioning

We are talking about ‘Breaking The Shackles Of Asian Female Conditioning’. Ooooof this is fire! Social conditioning, is the process by which individuals are trained unconsciously to adhere to conventions or manners which are generally approved by society. This process shapes the concept of gender identity — for women, it is the influence from society to …

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